10/08/2017

FREE Mini 5 Senses Activity Pack for Preschool and Kindergarten - Homeschooling

 
Here's a mini pack of three activities of the five senses (sight, hearing, tasting, touching, and smelling). It can be used for both preschoolers and kindergartners. 
It teaches children about the five senses that Allah blessed human beings with. It also reminds children that not everyone has all five senses, but everyone is blessed and unique.


Activity 1: The child is asked to circle (color-coded) the image corresponding to the sense.
Activity 2: I can see..., I can touch..., etc. It is a similar concept to the first activity in another form.
Activity 3: This is a maze activity. The child is asked to help Ahmad get to the masjid by connecting the images that he can see on his way. 
For better duration, laminate each activity sheet, and use a dry erase marker to write on it. 

I hope your child will enjoy this mini pack. If you use this activity pack, I would really appreciate it if you would let me know how you found it in shaa Allah. 

8 Amazing Uses and Benefits of Food-Grade Diatomaceous Earth + DIYs

 
Diatomaceous Earth (DE) is a silica(found in humans, animals, plans, and essentials for healthy bones, nails, skin, hair, and other body parts/organs)-rich mineral made from the remains of diatoms (organism found in lakes, oceans, rivers, streams, and anywhere there is water). It is a very hard rock that is crushed into white power. It has many uses and health benefits for humans, animals, and even plans. There are two types of DE - Food Grade and Non-Food Grade. The safest type to use is the food-grade one for both internal and external uses. There are many uses and health benefits of Diatomaceous Earth; I'll share just seven of them.

1. Detoxifies the body and improves health inside out
When taken internally, food-grade Diatomaceous Earth detoxes the body by absorbing toxins from the blood and killing parasites and viruses from the body. It also cleanses the gut, as a result, clears the skin and improves the overall health of other body parts/organs. DE strengthens the bones, joints, teeth, nails, hair, and eyelashes. Make sure to stay hydrated when taking DE as it can cause constipation.
How to take it:
Put a teaspoon of food-grade DE in a cup of water, mix it, and drink it on an empty stomach 1 hour before eating, or 2-3 hours after. Do this once a day in the morning or evening. Take DE 10 days on, and 10 days off. After a week or two of taking DE, you can increase your intake to 2 teaspoons or 1 tablespoon. Start gradually to see how your body reacts to it. There are many ways of taking DE, this is just one of them.


2. A natural deodorant for sensitive skin
If you're into making your own natural deodorants to protect your body from harmful substances found in the conventional deodorants, you may want to consider DE as a substitute. Baking soda is commonly used as an ingredient in DIYs deodorants, but many people find it irritating on their skin, especially when used in big quantity. If you have sensitive skin, you can replace the baking soda with DE.
How to use it:
a. Apply it directly to the armpits without mixing it with anything.
b. Mix 3/4 cup of arrowroot powder, 1/3 cup of food-grade DE, 1 teaspoon of baking soda (optional since it's a small amount; if your skin can handle it), 8 tablespoons of soft organic cold pressed extra virgin coconut oil, and 10 drops of essential oil of your choice. Store it in a glass jar, and use as needed.
c. Mix 3/4 cup of arrowroot powder, 1/3 cup of food-grade DE, 1/3 cup of melted organic cold pressed extra virgin coconut oil, 4-6 tablespoons of melted beeswax pellets, and 10 drops of essential oil of your choice. Store it in a deodorant stick or glass jar, let it cool down, and use as needed.

3. Toothpaste for strong and clean teeth
Use DE as a toothpaste or mix it in your current toothpaste.
How to use it:
a. Put a little bit of DE on your toothpaste, and brush your teeth as usual.
b. Mix DE in your store-bought toothpaste or DIYs toothpaste.
c. Mix 5-10 tablespoons of DE, 5-10 tablespoons of Bentonite Clay, 1-3 teaspoons of baking soda (optional), and 2-3 tablespoons of activated charcoal. Mix it all with a wooden spoon (avoid any metallic item because it will cancel out the Bentonite Clay), and store it in a glass jar.
d. Mix 5-10 tablespoons of DE, 5-10 tablespoons of Bentonite Clay, 1-3 teaspoons of baking soda (optional), 2-5 teaspoons of organic cold pressed extra virgin coconut oil at room temperature, 3-5 drops of peppermint essential oil. Mix it all with a wooden spoon (avoid any metallic item because it will cancel out the Bentonite Clay), and store it in a glass jar.


4. Skin products, facial mask and scrub
DE is a common ingredient found in many skin products such as soaps, facial masks, and facial scrubs. If you make your own soap, you can use DE as one of the ingredients for smooth and clear skin. But for now, let's talk about the facial mask and scrubs.
How to use it:
a. Mix a tablespoon (or less) of DE with few drops of distilled water to create a paste-like consistency. If you have dry skin, try mixing it with a bit (drops) of carrier old such as coconut oil, almond oil, olive oil, or other oils because DE can be very drying. Apply it on your face by gently scrubbing it in a circular motion. Leave it for about 15-20 minutes, and wash it off with cool water.
b. Mix a tablespoon (or less) of DE, 1/2 teaspoon of honey, and 1/2 teaspoon of plain yogurt. Apply it on your face by gently scrubbing it in a circular motion. Leave it for about 15-20 minutes, and wash it off with cool water.
c. Mix a tablespoon (or less) of DE, 1/2 teaspoon of honey, 2-5 drops of apple cider vinegar (less for sensitive skin), and 2-3 drops of tea tree essential oil (optional, do this before bedtime to avoid direct sun radiation after applying tea tree essential oil) . Apply it on your face by gently scrubbing it in a circular motion. Leave it for about 15-20 minutes, and wash it off with cool water.

5. For stronger and fuller hair
Diatomaceous Earth strengthen the hair when taken internally and externally. For external use, please be very careful with the dosage because it can dry the hair and have the opposite effect.
How to use it:
1. Put 1-2 teaspoons of DE in your shampoo/conditional, mix/shake it, and use as usual.
2. Mix 1 teaspoon of DE in your usual deep conditioner.
Warning: Based on experience, I prefer to NOT use DE in my hair anymore. It can be extremely drying, but that's because I used a lot more than I should have. So, experiment with it by using a very small quantity.

6. Natural deodorizer 
Use DE to keep your house, carpet, and refrigerator smelling fresh. Much like baking soda, DE neutralizes odors. If you have a pet, you can even use DE to keep its litter fresh and odorless.
How to use it:
For refrigerator: Put DE in a small open container and leave it in the refrigerator. For better result, change it every 2-3 weeks.
For Carpet: Brush or dust a little bit of DE throughout your carpet. Let it sit for 24 hours, then vacuum the carpet. Cover your nose when doing this to avoid inhaling the DE.
For Pet Litter: Put about a cup of DE in the pet litter (along with the usual litter items). Frequently change the litter as usual.

7. A natural pest control
DE can be used to kill pests such as bedbugs, cockroaches, and other pests that make their way in a house. It can also be used to control the pest in gardens and farms. Even though DE kills pests, it is still not harmful to humans, animals, and plants. The reason is because DE kills pests by drying out their outer coat.
How to use it:
For Home: Vacuum the house or clean it as usual, cover your nose, and dust a little bit (thin layer with a brush or baby powder container) of DE throughout the carpets, in cracks, and around/under the beds. Leave it for 24 hours, then vacuum the whole house. Do this every day for about 1-2 weeks.
For Gardens and Farms: Dust DE throughout the garden/farm while it is dry. DE works best when it is dry.

8. Protects animals from fleas
DE protects animals from carrying and spreading fleas.
How to use it:
Vacuum, then dust any area that the animal visits with DE. Leave it for 1-2 days, then vacuum it all. You can also dust the animal with a thin layer of DE, and comb through its fur using a flea comb the following day. Continue doing this for 2-3 weeks or until you are sure all the fleas are gone.


There are much more uses and benefits of Diatomaceous Earth. Make sure to always do your own research before using any of the above recipes that I have shared.

Disclaimer: None of what I've shared is meant to diagnose or treat any illness/disease. These are only my personal opinions and research. Please always make your own research before taking any advice/opinions.


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9/30/2017

5 Easy Ways to Homeschool for Little to Totally FREE - Ihsaan Home Academy

If you're planning on homeschooling or currently homeschool and find yourself spending way too much money than you expected, I have alternatives for you in shaa Allah! We live in a time where finding resources to teach our children has become very easy compared to years ago. Finding curricula is no longer a challenge, so I'll share with you five different ways you can start homeschooling your children for little to nothing!

1. Buying books from the library
If you didn't know it before, you can find lots of very cheap resources at the library! Many libraries display their old books for sell for as little as four books for $1 or £1! Yes, you read that right. Next time you go to the library, keep an eye out for used books on sell, or ask one of the staffs about it. Obviously, it will depend on where you live. Not every country has free libraries or libraries full of rich resources.

2. Buying books from Dollar Store/General or Poundland
The Dollar Store (for those in the USA) or Poundland (for the UK) often has resources for different grade levels. I'm not talking about craft items; that's something completely different. I'm talking about subject books, workbooks, and activity books. Keep an eye out next time you go, but make sure to buy whatever you find and believe you will need because they do NOT last on the shelves.


3. Borrowing books from the library
If you don't mind frequently using curriculum books that you do not own, another option would be to borrow the books from the public free library. Beside story books, the library is full of many other types of books, including textbooks. Just search by subject and ask the librarian for help if you have to. You'd be amazed at how many resources you could find. Many homeschooling families use library resources to homeschool. This method isn't only free, it also prevents books from piling up in the house and taking too much space. It is also an easy way to homeschool on the go; though, you can also take the books home for a limited number of days/weeks. You are also free to re-borrow the books as many times as needed.

4. Using online full curriculum programs
If you haven't read my previous article/post where I shared free complete curriculums for homeschooling, here is the link. I shared a little bit of details to help you make an informed decision. You can always click on each link to go to the websites for more information.

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5. Making your own curriculum using free resources
For those who prefer making their own curriculums, use individual free resources for every subject and make complete custom-made curriculums. I've shared lots of resources by subject on this site, here's the link.


I hope this was helpful. If you know of any other way to easily homeschool for little to nothing, please feel free to share. For any specific questions, contact me and I'll get back to you as soon as I can in shaa Allah.
I wish you a successful and blessed homeschooling journey.

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Umm Sumayyah is a mother of two and a former teacher who turned into a home educator after becoming a mother. She is also an editor and a researcher who loves collecting and sharing information on social matters, education, career, and entrepreneurship.

9/23/2017

Free Complete Online Curriculums for Homeschooling - Ihsaan Home Academy

 

I've shared many free homeschooling resources categorized by grade levels and courses over time. But having too many stand-alone resources can sometimes be overwhelming for many parents who are new to homeschooling. Having access to multiple resources is especially helpful for educators who plan on building their own curricula from scratch; which, not many people have the patience or interest for. Having an all-in-one curriculum is not only helpful for educators who are new to homeschooling and require some type of guidance, it is also helpful for those who go through homeschooling burn-out and would like to take a break. So, I have made a list of six complete online curriculum resources that can be used as full or supplementary educational resources.


http://discoveryk12.com
About: Discovery K12 is a free Pre-K to 12 online homeschooling curriculum that is non-common core and secular. It can be used as a part-time or full-time curriculum.
Courses Covered: It covers Reading/Literature, Language Arts, Math, History/Social Studies, Science, Visual Performing Arts, and Physical Education. The program includes lots of literature reading, essay writing, presentations, and research. It also has some extra curriculum courses such as Healthy Living, HTML Coding, Spanish 1, and Personal Finance. 
How it works: Students (or their parents) simply register and start following the program. Every school day, after recording attendance, students are expected to do the daily assignments presented on the first page before moving to the next. Parents are in full control of what they want their children to cover because there are no requirements. There's also an option for educators to upgrade for extra features such as the ability to track multiple students in one account, detailed grade books with editable reports, answer keys to quizzes, issue high school diplomat, and much more. Learn more by clicking here.


http://www.mobymax.com/

About: MobyMax is commonly used by school districts, but also home educators. It is a common core curriculum that goes from K to 8th grade. The learning platform seems to encourage independent learning but probably isn't meant to be used as a full-time curriculum. Based on my research, most schools and home educators seem to use it as a supplement to help students on subjects they struggle a bit. 
Courses Covered: Courses include Math, Language Arts/Phonics/Spelling, Vocabulary, Reading, Writing, Science, and Social Studies. 
How it works: The teacher makes an account using the school/homeschooling name, then registers students to join the classroom. Students take placement tests to determine where they are struggling. Teachers have the ability to customize the learning of every student, see lesson results, and worksheets. Educators can upgrade to the premium version for more features such as progress monitoring, assessments, certificates, games, and more. Learn more by clicking here.

http://www.freeworldu.org
About: Free World U is a Pre-K to 12th grade educational academy that has both a free and a premium version as the previous two. It has an innovative learning platform that is based on flashcards. It mainly targets home educators, but it's highly debatable if the curriculum can be used as a full homeschooling curriculum. In any case, you may be able to use it as a supplementary homeschooling resource.   
Courses Covered: Subjects include Math, Science, Social Studies, Language Arts, Health, Manners, Character Development, and much more. 
How it works:  The parent registers, then registers students. With the free version, parents have access to all subjects and flashcards, and the flashcards students viewed. There's an option to upgrade and gain access to some or all the other features such as exams, progress report, year plan, daily journal, transcript, and more. Learn more by clicking here.

http://www.k12.com/




About: K12 is a completely free common-core online public education program with state-certified teachers. As the name makes it obvious, it starts from Kindergarten to grade 12. Sadly, it is only available to students within the United States of America (most states). Because it is a full program, there isn't enough room for flexibility for educators who prefer to be totally in charge of courses. It also has online private schools and courses. 
Courses Covered: It covers Math, Science, Language Arts, Social Studies, Technology, and more. 
How it works:  Students register based on their state of residency, the school sends them educational materials (textbooks, science kits, computer if needed, and more), and they start the program during school openings. All school materials that are no longer being used must be returned at the end of the school year. Parents cover materials as pens, pencils, notebooks, and the like. Learn more by clicking here.

http://www.connectionsacademy.com/


About: Much like K12, Connection Academy is also a free online public school for students located in the United States of America. Since it is a complete public school, there is little room to flexibility for parents who prefer their own customized curriculum. 
Courses Covered: It covers common core subjects such as Math, Language Arts, Science, Social Studies, Technology, and more. 
How it works: Students register based on their state of residency, and depending on the school in that state, they receive all materials in addition to a computer. All school materials that are no longer being used must be returned at the end of the school year. Obviously, there would be little cost to cover materials such as pens, pencils, notebooks, and the like. Learn more by clicking here.

I hope this list was helpful. If you know any other, please share in shaa Allah. I wish you the best in your homeschooling journey. May Allah help us all.

Note: There are many free full resources out there, but I'm only sharing the ones that I believe could be decent and the ones I may try myself.

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Umm Sumayyah is a mother of two and a former teacher who turned into a home educator after becoming a mother. She is also an editor and a researcher who loves collecting and sharing information on social matters, education, career, and entrepreneurship.

9/08/2017

Mom, You are NOT Alone: Encouragement From Another Mom

 

As a mother of two, I understand what probably most mothers go through daily. As a full-time mother who is with her children 24/7, I fully understand the struggle that parenting/motherhood can bring. Of course, the blessings of parenting will always outweigh the struggles, but sometimes, it's good to let others know that you understand them because you're going through similar experiences. Our overall experiences may be different, but they sure are similar. Motherhood is one of the hardest, yet most rewarding "jobs" out there. I mean come on, you are raising a HUMAN being! How successful you are will impact the future generation one way or the other. It is a huge responsibility that comes with lots of bumps on the road, but most mothers usually keep it all to themselves for fear of sounding whiny or ungrateful. I'm here to tell you, you are NOT alone!

Repeating yourself all the time
Throughout the day, you say one thing multiple times and still feel as if you're speaking to the wall sometimes. You dream of a day when you simply give an instruction and it is followed through without constantly repeating yourself. You're not trying to be mean or bossy, you just want the best for your kids and try your best to keep them from getting harmed.

Being pro at multitasking and pulled from different directions
If multitasking was not one of your strongest points before becoming motherhood, well, there you have it, thank motherhood for a brand-new skill! Alhamdulillah (all thanks and praise be to Allah). But... it can be draining at times. You always feel as if you're being pulled from different directions, so you have no choice but to try doing multiple things at once. But hey, you're only a human being at the end of the day, so your multitasking does fail sometimes.


Being asked repeated questions even after you have answered them
If you don't experience this, what's your secret!? Are there actually any mothers on earth not going through this? But, I must admit, it can be funny and cute at times. The little brains are learning, so it's all good.

Dealing with cries and misbehavior
Aren't kids cute? Well, until they just don't stop crying... Okay, maybe they always are cute, maa shaa Allah, but it can still be annoying at times to always hear cries. It can be frustrating, and even highly stressful. Sometimes there are obvious reasons for the cries and misconducts, and other times, it's hard to point out what the problem is. If the kids are a bit older or at an age of talking, you may spend time trying to get some information out of them. If they can’t talk, then you just have to put your thinking cap on and assess the situation carefully. I believe there's always a reason why a child cries or seems to be misbehaving, but finding the patience for it all can sometimes be draining.

Finding it hard to get things done
Getting one simple task done can sometimes take you forever. On a gloomy day, getting certain things done becomes almost impossible. If you also work from home, you may as well get 30 hours a day! So, you feel extremely productive when you are finally able to cross out your to-do list. But of course, things get better as you learn to manage your time, Alhamdulillah.

Getting things done after children go to sleep
Since you're finding it hard to get things done, you end up doing most of your tasks after your children go to sleep. Wait; shouldn't that be the perfect time to sleep? In your dreams! The... sleepless type of dreams.

Forgetting about food or eating late
You may be so focused on your kids or getting things done that you end up forgetting about food or end up eating late. Your priorities are kid-focused. But truly, those kids also need their mother to be in good shape and healthy! As the saying goes, “happy wife mom, happy life home.”

Feeling constantly exhausted
This may be a little exaggerated; or maybe not, depending on how many children you have, and other factors. But let's just say that tiredness definitely creeps in a lot of time. It's a no-brainer! You're multitasking and being pulled from different directions all day.

Dealing with sleeplessness
What is sleep? Sound foreign! Okay, okay, okay, you do get sleep... sometimes. As if exhaustion wasn't enough, now you can't sleep. It may be because of extreme tiredness, overthinking of the next day, planning lessons (if you’re a home educator and it’s that planning day), or simply because you probably have a newborn. Whatever it is, it's all good; you can take it... sometimes. On all seriousness, it's not very fun or healthy to have sleep deprivation. There must be a way around this.

Wanting a break
Who doesn't want a break sometimes? As cute and adorable as your children are, sometimes you just want a little break. A break can be a little quiet 'me-time' in your room alone, a walk at the park, tea/coffee with friends (without the kids), reading your favorite book, at the seashore listening to the waves, or alone at the masjid listening to your favorite Qur'an reciter reciting your favorite surah (chapter). Whatever it may be, you just want a break; just a little.

Affected by other people's experiences
This one hits home for me. Every time I hear of or see another person's child getting hurt, I either break down or become extremely sad. This is not necessarily a bad thing; it's called empathy. But it can quickly become draining when it's taken to the extreme. Once you become a mother, you just have that extra level of empathy towards another mother. When you see other mothers go through (with their children) what you believe you could have never found the strength to endure, it hurts; badly! You just can't imagine how mothers could find the strength to see their children suffer. Then you quickly remind yourself, "that's life sometimes. I'm not guaranteed bliss the next minute."

Comparing yourself to other mothers while thinking they just have it perfectly figured out
You think, "why can't I just be like these mothers? They are so organized and have it all figured out. What's wrong with me?" The struggle gets even more real; or laughable. I say laughable because maybe those mothers think the same about you! I was very surprised when a friend of mine thought I was a very organized mother who knew what she was doing... all the time! Hmmm, no; maybe sometimes, but not all the time. We just never know what's behind closed doors, so it's easy to set unrealistic expectations for ourselves when compared to what we think others are like. Imagine being in a room full of stressed mother with smiles on their faces. Now imagine all those mothers thinking, "Allahumma baarik 'alayki (may Allah's blessing be upon her), she's the perfect example of a mother. She just has it! What's wrong with me!?" *Let me give you a minute to laugh it off* Done? Okay, welcome back. No comment.

Feeling guilt and keeping things to yourself
You just "know" that you're a terrible mother and you don't dare embarrass yourself by voicing your feelings. You beat yourself down (not literally, if so, please don't), and believe you will be wrongfully judged by other mothers whom you believe have it perfectly figured out. So, you decide to never talk about your daily struggles as a mother. Motherhood is a natural part of life. I mean come on, there couldn't possibly be anything wrong; unless of course one is a terrible mother. Right? Wrong! I once thought the same, and still have guilts sometimes. It is easy to feel as if you're doing it all wrong. If things aren't as organized as you want them to be, there's always room for improvement. But it doesn't mean you're a bad mother; we are all in this journey together. It's a learning progress, a journey, but one that will never be perfect. Life, as naturally as we know it, comes with ups and downs. It is 100% normal to go through motherhood struggles.

Finding it hard to let go of your children
Despite all the bumps, you still find it difficult to let go of your children. I don't know about you, but no matter how stressed I get, unless it's an emergency, I still find it hard to be away from my children for a long period of time. I couldn't even withstand an hour without feeling the need to call, check on them, or go get my babies! So, I don't know how mothers who work outside of the home manage to stay sane. Different people have different reasons for doing what they do, and some people simply have no other choice. Besides, things can always change from one minute to another. Getting back to the topic; yes, despite everything, it is still hard to get away from those cutie fingers and toes! That's motherhood. *Smile*

The good?
Everything; maybe including the stress.

Blessing of being a mother
Besides all the above mentioned, nothing can compare to being a mother. It is normal to feel stressed out sometimes, want a break, and feel guilty; but always KNOW that there can only be one YOU. Your role as a mother is like none other. Will you face struggles at times? Of course you will; as I said, it's normal. We never know what goes on behind closed doors, so we couldn't possibly know that other mothers face similar struggles to what we face unless we share, reach out, listen, and/or read. Just know that you are NOT alone, and things get better in shaa Allah. Talking about it may help you release your stress or maybe help someone else understand that THIS is part of motherhood, and reduce their guilt. Motherhood is a blessing from Allah that shouldn't be taken for-granted. People are blessed differently and at different times. Some people have children, some don't. Some have them early, and some have them later. That's life.


You learn new things and relearn old info
This is especially true if you're also a homeschooler. On top of learning new things and remembering old information, your children's curious brains will help you keep the learned information current. Children often repeat what they learn, so hearing the same info will also help you retain it.

You are forced to work on your patience
I don't know about you, but patience is not my strongest suit. I am starting to see an improvement as time passes, even though there's a regress sometimes. Overall, I think my patience may have improved, Alhamdulillah. Motherhood forces you to work on yourself.

Your love for them makes it all worth it and brings you joy
At the end of the day, you wouldn't change it for the world! Seeing your children grow, taken care of, smile, happy, and simply develop warms your heart. You just can't believe that YOU are raising human beings and have such a great impact on them. That... makes you want to try even harder! So, take a moment and say, “Alhamdulillah (all praise and thanks be to Allah).”

Keep going, mommy!
May Allah bless you and your children.

So, what else do you think mothers often struggle with and keep it to themselves thinking they are alone? Please share in the comment below.

8/12/2017

6 Crucial Tips on Preventing Sibling Rivalry

 
Sibling love is a very important part of unity in a family. When siblings don't love each other, it weakens the family, and leads to many other problems; including social issues. But we have to understand that it all starts from childhood; or even before. I will share six crucial tips on how to prevent sibling rivalry and increase love instead, inShaa Allah. 

1. Purify your intentions and make du'a (supplication)
Umar ibn Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Prophet Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: "Surely, all actions are but driven by intentions, and verily every man shall have but that which he intended..." Al Bukharah.
Everything we do in life starts with the intention we make. By purifying our intentions and doing everything for the sake of Allah helps ease the journey and gain reward from Allah. So make the intention to have children who love each other and help each other on the straight path. Start thinking about this even before having kids, or before marriage. And don't forget to make lots of ad'iyah (duas), asking Allah to make it possible.

2. Involve your first children throughout your pregnancy
When you're expecting your next child, always involve your previous children and make them feel like their participation, care, and love matters a lot to the family and the unborn baby. When talking to the unborn baby and rubbing your belly, do that while your children are next to you, and ask them if they would like to try. When they do, smile, and let them know what a good job they are doing. Encourage them, and call them good brothers/sisters because of how kind they are to their unborn sibling. 
It always warmed my heart when my daughter would try to teach the baby when I was expecting. She loved rubbing the belly with oils and butters, and the baby was the first person she would want to speak to in the morning. Allahumma baarik 'alayki (May Allah bless her).

3. Once the baby is born, allow the older children to help
Now that the new baby is born, try not to neglect the older children. Allow them to help out; with supervision. Don't always play with the new baby while forgetting the other children. Try not to make everything about the new baby. Yes, it's normal to care more for the newborn because he/she requires more care and is more fragile; but involve the other children as much as possible. And throughout the process, praise them for their hard work, kindness, and well appreciated help. It would encourage them to want to do more, and make them feel like they matter. It would also teach them responsibility and understand that the baby needs their help. This will eventually increase their love for their new sibling, and vice versa inShaa Allah.


4. Show by actions
Love and respect your children, so they will learn what love is. Children learn better through actions. It would make no sense if you try to make them love each other while you show them little to no love. Also, if you have siblings around, interact with them in a loving way. This will also set an example for your children to follow. But don't lose hope if your family (parents, siblings, etc) isn't very loving; it is still possible to make a difference in your new family.

5. Always encourage your children to love each other
Now that you have established a pattern of love through actions, don't forget to also remind your children to love each other. Communicate with them even if they are little. When you make mistakes, let them know that no one is perfect and that people make mistakes sometimes. If they witness poor examples, don't lose hope; communicate with them. Let them know that things don't always happen the way they should, but that we should always strive to do better.

6. Trust in Allah in whatever happens afterwards
Do your best and don't beat yourself if things don't work out exactly the way you envisioned. As long as we do our best, the results aren't in our control. Allah is the One in control of all affairs, and His Wisdom is powerful. So just keep making du'a, and trust in Allah.

May Allah increase the love in our families, and the whole Muslim ummah.

8/04/2017

FREE Homeschooling Planning Printables

 
Assalaam alaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh!
If you haven't already seen, I've piled up a number of free planning resources with different styles and colors. You will find calendars, cover pages, dividers, and many more. The idea is to allow you to make your own homeschooling planner using varieties of free resources. Even if you do buy or download whole planners, having many choices of planning sheets will allow you to customize your planner as much as possible inShaa Allah.

Besides the free homeschooling planning sheets, you will also find household planning printables and more. Make sure to regularly check the Planners page as I will upload new files once in a while inShaa Allah. You are free to share the links with others.
If you need any help putting your planner together, please do not hesitate to contact me bi-idhmillah.
Click HERE for FREE Planner Printables

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Umm Sumayyah is a mother of two and a former teacher who turned into a home educator after becoming a mother. She is also an editor and a researcher who loves collecting and sharing information on social matters, education, career, and entrepreneurship.